Tus menyuam qeeb nyob hauv lub hnub nyoog nrawm. Yuav ua li cas?
Coob leej ntau tus niam txiv ua rau lawv cov menyuam poob qab. Thiab txhua qhov kev sim ua kom nws nrawm nrawm ua rau cov kev coj ua: tus menyuam qeeb dua, thiab koj tau txais kev txob siab.
Tam sim no, cov lus npe nrov hauv Olympic "nrawm dua, siab dua, muaj zog dua" tau txais cov ntsiab lus tshiab. Tom qab tag nrho, peb nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb ntawm kev nrawm, thaum nrawm yog muaj nuj nqis rau txhua yam: hauv kev siv thev naus laus zis, hauv kev nqis tes ua, kev txiav txim siab, txij li txhua thib ob yog nqi. Peb cov neeg laus nyob rau hauv ib tug yeej vwm. Yuav ua li cas txog peb cov menyuam? Nws puas yooj yim rau lawv loj hlob hauv lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub no?
Thaum sawv ntxov. Koj twb tau npaj yuav hnav khaub ncaws, npaj tau txhij, koj twb yuav luag sawv ntawm qhov rooj, thiab koj tus menyuam tseem tsis tau ua nws pluas tshais. Maj mam, zoo li yog tias tsis ceeb toom thaum sawv ntxov kev kub ntxhov, nws noj muesli, chews kom zoo zoo thiab tshuaj xyuas cov duab ntawm lub khob. Nws tsis nrawm, thiab tsis nkag siab tias vim li cas nws niam thiaj li hnyav, vim li cas nws yaum nws dua. “Noj kom nrawm dua! Peb twb lig lawm!"
Tab sis lwm qhov xwm txheej yog tej zaum paub ntau. Sadik. Niam nqa tau tus me nyuam, nws nyuam qhuav hnav, nyob hauv cov huab. Txhua tus menyuam twb dhau mus tsev lawm, thiab nws maj mam kwv nws khau rau. Thiab nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig los kho nws. Nws tsis zoo li hnov, tsis quav ntsej.
Coob leej ntau tus niam txiv ua rau lawv cov menyuam poob qab. Kev noj qeeb, taug kev, xav thiab txawm hais lus yog tus yam ntxwv tseem ceeb ntawm tus menyuam qeeb. Thiab txhua qhov kev sim ua kom nws nrawm nrawm ua rau cov kev coj ua: tus menyuam qeeb dua, thiab koj tau txais kev txob siab.
Thiab yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim txuas mus ntxiv?
Cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam zoo li no tau txeeb los ntawm qhov kub ntxhov tiag. Tom qab no, tus menyuam tsuas muaj 4, 5, 6 xyoo xwb, thiab nws qeeb dhau. Thiab dab tsi yuav tshwm sim thaum nws mus kawm ntawv? Koj yuav tsum tau kawm nyob rau ntawd, thiab qhov yuav tsum muaj rau cov tub ntxhais kawm niaj hnub yog siab heev, koj yuav tsum paub tswj cov khoom sai sai. Yuav ua li cas hais txog phooj ywg kev sib raug zoo? Xws li cov menyuam qeeb yuav twv yuav raug hu lub npe kev tawm tsam, xws li "nres". Tab sis dab tsi txog nws txoj haujlwm kev tshaj lij, kev ua haujlwm? Ib tus neeg ua haujlwm tiv thaiv tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav qhov siab. Nimble, nimno cov npoj yaig yuav nyob tom hauv ntej, thiab nws yuav raug daig rau hauv qab ntawm tus ntaiv haujlwm.
Koj tsis tuaj yeem sib cav nrog qhov
Yuav ua li cas nrog lub qeeb ntawm tus menyuam, koj nug? Cov lus teb tau yooj yim: tsis tas yuav tsum sib ntaus! Tom qab txhua tus, qhov xwm tau xav txog txhua yam txig. System-vector psychology (SVP) Yuri Burlan hais tias cov menyuam yaus tau yug los nrog qee yam ntawm cov yam ntxwv - cov vectors uas tsim nyog rau tib neeg hom. Qee tus menyuam yaus lub zog, txawb, txhua yam yog hluav taws hauv lawv txhais tes. Lwm tus yog yug raws lub sijhawm so, lawv muaj lawv tus kheej lub luag haujlwm: los kawm thiab tom qab ntawd kis ntawm kev paub thiab kev paub ntau ntxiv rau lwm tiam.
Feem ntau, cov me nyuam uas ua si zoo li no yog tus nquag, mob siab rau, mloog lus uas menyuam nyiam kawm, nws muaj "lub taub hau kub". Nws siab zoo, yog qhov tseeb, siab ntev, siab ncaj, ncaj ncees. Rau nws, qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog kev nrawm, tab sis zoo, thiab nws kho txhua lub lag luam ua lub luag haujlwm thiab yuav ua haujlwm nyuaj rau kev qhuas, tsis yog ua khaub noom. Raws li SVP, cov ntaub ntawv innate yog qhov tshwm sim hauv cov neeg muaj qhov quav vector.
Tsis qeeb, tab sis txhij txhua
Ua txhua yam maj mam ua, ua kom zoo, siv tau, kom huv si, kom tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi yws txog - cov no yog cov qauv tseem ceeb rau cov neeg uas muaj lub qhov ncauj vias. Thiab qhov nrawm tsuas yog thaiv qhov no. “Yog koj maj, koj yuav ua rau neeg luag!” Lawv nyiam hais. Yog li ntawd, lawv ib txwm nyob tsis txaus, lawv lub gait, hais lus thiab cov metabolism hauv lub cev qeeb qeeb.
Tus me nyuam noj nrog qhov quav vector? Maj mam, ua tib zoo khaws khoom noj, nws yuav tsis khaws khoom noj los ntawm lub rooj thiab yuav tsis noj mov ntawm kev mus. Nws lub cev maj mam zom cov zaub mov, thiab nws kuj siv sijhawm los ntxuav cov hnyuv kom huv si. Yog li no, tus me nyuam lub qhov quav nyiam zaum ntawm lub potty ntev ntev. Nov yog nws qhov pom txawv.
Yuav tsim ib tus menyuam ntxaws li cas?
Qhov system-vector psychology ntawm Yuri Burlan hais tias cov txheej txheem ntawm kev ntxuav rau tus me nyuam qhov quav yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, thiab yog tias koj pheej rub nws tawm ntawm lub lauj kaub, tsis txhob ntxuav lub cev tag nrho, qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev tsis zoo. Piv txwv li, es tsis txhob ua tus neeg huv, huv si, tus txiv neej qias neeg yuav loj hlob, leej twg yuav zoo siab rau kev ua qias neeg txhua yam; hloov rau tus kws tshaj lij, tus kws tshaj lij, tus neeg thuam yuav loj hlob uas tsuas yog thuam txhua yam thiab txhua tus.
Tib qho teeb meem yog nrog kev xav. Txais cov ntaub ntawv tshiab, ib tug menyuam yaus uas muaj lub pob hluav taws xob (system vector) tso rau nws ntawm kev tawm tswv yim, muab txhua yam tso rau saum txee. Yog li ntawd, kom kawm, piv txwv li ib zaj paj huam, nws yuav xav tau sijhawm ntxiv, tab sis nws yuav nco qab nws ntev heev, tas nws lub neej.
Kev saib xyuas tshwj xeeb tau them rau SVP rau qhov peculiarities ntawm tus me nyuam hais lus nrog lub qhov quav vector. Xws li tus menyuam hais qeeb qeeb, txhua yam, txhua yam me me yog qhov tseem ceeb rau nws. Kev cuam tshuam ib tug me nyuam nrog ib kab lus xws li "hais lus nrawm dua", ib tus neeg laus muab nws rho tawm ntawm kev xav thiab tus me nyuam yuav poob mus ua neeg poob ntsej muag. Feem ntau tom qab cov lus ntawd tas, nws pib nws zaj dab neeg ntxiv. Yog tias tus menyuam yaus no cuam tshuam tas li, maj nrawm hais lus, qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau tawv ncauj. Txhua yam teeb meem, qhov nyuaj thiab qhov xwm txheej ntawm qhov tsis ua tiav los ntawm menyuam yaus. Vim li ntawd nws thiaj tseem ceeb kom koj nkag siab qhov yam ntxwv zoo uas koj tus menyuam muaj txhawm rau txhim kho nws kom raug thiab sib raug zoo.
Yog tias koj xav paub ntau ntxiv txog lwm yam ntawm tus me nyuam paum, mus saib Yuri Burlan cov chav kawm online dawb ntawm Systemic Vector Psychology. Tom qab thawj zaug qhuab qhia, koj yuav nkag siab tias yuav ua li cas rau koj tus menyuam qeeb thiab yuav ua li cas pab nws siv nws txoj kev zoo los ntawm qhov xwm.
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